12. Oksana Hates Pornography...or Maybe Not?

Apr 20, 2025

Oksana is outspoken on her "war" against pornography. She has said that all three of her husbands were porn addicts, which includes me. It is silly for me to argue that I don't watch porn, since nobody that says that is believed by anyone! However, just like some actors don't watch their movies and some musicians don't listen to their music, I don't like to watch my own content. If I do watch, it is from a critical perspective...which is hardly an erotic experience.

My point of viewing explicit content is BUSINESS. I'll have objective discussions with another creator, producer, etc., about why a production makes money or not. I’m not discussing whether I look good or whether a scene is hot or not…it is simply about what it takes to get people to open their wallets.

As far as I know, addicts are the ones who open their wallet, which is the opposite of me. I'm the supplier: “addicts” are my target audience. (to which I’m grateful)

Although I never saw it as a “competition”, Oksana was extremely jealous that my sales were more successful than hers. She would rant for hours about not understanding why people would buy my content while hers flopped…but she failed to show any interest in the BUSINESS aspect of the market. She was fixated on how she looked in pictures instead of appealing to paying customers...in fact she would BUY followers on social media platforms. She often criticized the ethics of my products…but I’ve always failed to see how [me] selling pictures/videos to men and women online is less ethical than [her] giving nude and/or topless lap dances in person. Here is a rundown of her anti-porn, anti-sexual perspectives:

  • Oksana actually bragged about her masturbation experience...since she claimed to start masturbation at six years old. (!)

  • Oksana worked for a full nude strip club when she lived in Pennsylvania. She also performed private shows at frat houses. Several times she mentioned how the guys would go crazy when the other performer licked her vagina, so I presume this was a nude lesbian show.

  • Oksana dated at least one patron that she met while working as a topless dancer in Raleigh, NC.

  • Oksana and I both owned the Florida LLC that produced my explicit content. Often, the revenues went directly to her. She certainly didn't complain about porn when the money was going directly to her!

  • Oksana has done at least one nude photoshoot on a public beach in Florida. (I was present: New Smyrna Beach, and it made zero dollars.)

  • Oksana kept recordings of couples having sex on her phone. She also kept videos of HER having sex on her phone. (I don't even have that!)

  • Oksana took me to a local strip club because she wanted a private lap dance AND wanted me to watch. This was her request, her idea alone. This went exactly as one would expect...Oksana watched the girls dance until she picked her favorite. The dancer took us to a small booth with a curtain door, stripped down to a g-string and dry-humped Oksana for the duration of a song. Oksana was irritated that I didn't find it appealing, so a few weeks later she went back to the same strip club with a friend. (without me)

  • Oksana has sent pornographic pictures and video (of me) to my friends, parents, sisters, aunts, uncles, doctor, financial advisor, and professional acquaintances.

  • Oksana told a former employee of my father's company that she is going to send a video of her and me having sex to my fiancée.

Who is closer to having a problem/addiction with pornography here...the accuser or the accused? This trend continues well beyond this topic; she is now accusing me of murdering her son and pedophelia. FACT: Her son lived with his father in North Carolina until he died of cancer in 2017. More on that, I promise.